We have a deep, God-given longing within each of us to know that we belong – fully, freely, and without fear of rejection. In a world where identity is often tied to performance, appearance, or social status, the Gospel offers a radically different acceptance: we belong because we are loved by God.
It’s not about what we do, how much we own, how good we look, or what we accomplish. Our belonging isn’t earned – it’s inherited through Jesus. He calls each of us daughters, not strangers. Family, not outsider.
As Christian women, we are invited into a community that reflects God's heart: one of grace, truth, and connection. We are not just individual believers walking our own paths; we are part of a holy, chosen people – who love, serve, and grow together.
We are not only told that we already belong – we are called to welcome those around us into that belonging.
This month, let’s reflect on what it means to belong to God and to one another.
Week 1: His Child
"The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God."
–Romans 8:16
You belong not because of what you’ve done, but because of who God is. His Spirit confirms the truth that you are not alone, not forgotten, and not unloved – you are His child.
Practice: Spend five quiet minutes today simply receiving this truth: I am God’s daughter, and He delights in me.
Week 2: Brought In
"So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God."
–Ephesians 2:19
God has brought you in – fully, completely, and forever. You’re not on the fringe; you’re part of His household, woven into His family with purpose and honor.
Practice: Write a note or prayer thanking God for bringing you into His family, even when you didn’t feel worthy.
Week 3: Chosen
"But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession…"
–1 Peter 2:9
You are not a mistake or an afterthought. God chose you, set you apart, and gave you a new identity. Your belonging has a purpose – to shine His light and proclaim His goodness.
Practice: Reflect on one way God has called you “out of darkness” in your life. What would it look like for you to fully embrace His light?
Week 4: Known By Your Love
"By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."
–John 13:35
Belonging doesn’t stop with us – it multiplies through love. We make room for others to belong when we love as Jesus loved: generously, sacrificially, and sincerely.
Practice: Find one intentional way to show Jesus’s love to someone in your family or your community today.
Written by: Theresa Meacham
Read by: Ben Calhoun
How would I think, feel, or live differently if I had no doubt about my belonging in God’s Kingdom?
So often, I let the chaos of the world – work, relationships, everyday trials and tribulations – to diffuse that truth. Mix in some interference from opposing forces and conditioned life experience, and I can quickly find myself feeling defeated, discouraged, confused…and ultimately lonely. Separated from God.
Sound familiar?
Aloneness may feel real in a moment of hardship, but it couldn’t be further from the truth.
Transformation takes place when I recognize and capture those lonely lies – that inner part of us that feels like an outsider.
I have spent a lot of time believing things that are not true. You, too? I lived out lonely lies that told me I’m on my own. When all along, God’s Truth tells me I am known, chosen, and part of a family – a son. The more time I spend in His presence, the greater my sense of belonging becomes.
This month we are moving beyond limiting self awareness, feelings of isolation, and the sensation of being an outsider. How? By meditating on God’s Word, identifying the lies, disempowering false thoughts – and ultimately journeying back to our rightful place of belonging!
Week 1: Truth
"The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God."
–Romans 8:16
Is this verse hard to believe? I get it. But if God says it is true – regardless of how I feel or make my own interpretation – then it is true. Settled. My resistance (conscience or subconscience) to this truth often leads me to feeling separated and alone when, in fact, my place is secure in God’s family.
Practice: This week let's dive into our false thoughts that may produce unbelief and isolation. Ask God to show you any error in your beliefs causing resistance to His truth and acceptance. God will restore you to His Truth if you continue to ask and seek.
Week 2: Acceptance
"So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God."
–Ephesians 2:19
Why is it that I often feel like a stranger – "different” from others? You might think, It seems like everyone else at church is so connected. In all my years of mentorship, this is a very common issue. Our own insecurities can further the feelings of not belonging – giving the sense that I am not getting it, I'm different, God must be angry with me, I have to try harder, or I must become more Holy. The truth is, there’s nothing we can do to make us belong to God more than we already do – He wants us completely, wholly, and just as we are.
Practice: Accepting God's never changing Word is an internal work – and it truly brings that sense of belonging and freedom we so desperately desire, even here on earth. This week, let’s examine what is holding us back from either getting in God’s Word or fully believing it – and ask for the freedom of acceptance.
Week 3: Align
"But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession…"
–1 Peter 2:9
Am I living for me or for God? Our tendency is to get caught up in the situations in my life and view everything from a selfish lens. This type of thinking drifts us slowly away from God's intentions and peaceful presence. No wonder we feel separated. Let’s get back to living for God and aligning ourselves with His plan for our life, even if we can't figure it out at times.
Practice: Trust is the key to the life God intended for us – our most fulfilling life. This week, let's look at areas where we may not be living in alignment with His intentions and ask Him how we can submit to His perfect will.
Week 4: Love
"By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."
–John 13:35
I recall a time when I asked God to show me how to be more loving. He brought some unlovable people into my life. One of the people He showed me? It was me. Yes, I learned that I was not loving myself – I still held on to hangups, mistakes, and old beliefs about myself that were not true. I had to do the internal work and resolve this inner conflict to be able to truly love others. I had to work on my inner critic – because it didn’t just criticize me, but others as well.
Practice: Freedom from the bondage of self – self-interest, self-criticism, selfishness, self-centeredness – sets us on a path to deeper and more genuine love toward both ourselves and others. It sets us on a path of belonging, not only for ourselves, but that we might extend that belonging to others. This week, let's remove roadblocks to living a life of “self.”
Written by: Theresa Meacham
Inspired by: Dave DelGiacco
Have you ever felt left out, like you didn’t quite fit in?
Maybe at school, in a group chat, or even around people who are supposed to know you well. It can hurt – but God’s truth tells a different story. He says you already belong. Not because of how popular you are or what you’ve done, but because you’re His.
You belong – not because of you, but because of Him.
When you follow Jesus, you’re part of something bigger than yourself. You’re chosen, seen, and included in God’s family. That changes everything – from how you see yourself to how you treat others. This month, we’ll explore what it means to truly belong – to God and to the people He’s placed around you.
Week 1: Child
"The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God."
–Romans 8:16
God doesn’t just put up with you – He calls you His child. His Spirit gently reminds your heart of this truth: you’re part of His family, always loved, never alone.
Practice: Take a deep breath and repeat this to yourself today when feeling insecure or alone: I belong to God. I am His child. That’s who I really am.
Week 2: Insider
"So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God."
–Ephesians 2:19
Even if you feel like you don’t fit in at school, church, or anywhere else – you do with God. He’s made you part of His home. You have a seat at His table.
Practice: Journal or think about a time you felt left out, and then write how this verse reminds you of where you truly belong as a child in God’s family.
Week 3: Chosen
"But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession…"
–1 Peter 2:9
You were chosen by God on purpose and for a purpose. He didn’t accidentally include you – He hand picked you to shine His light and share His love exactly as you are and exactly where you are.
Practice: Think of one way God has helped you grow or change, and pray for His wisdom and guidance as you continue to grow into the person He has called you to be.
Week 4: Known
"By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."
–John 13:35
Real belonging isn’t just about being included – it’s about helping others feel included too. When you love like Jesus, people see Him in you. And you give them the gift of feeling like they belong, too.
Practice: Look for someone who seems left out this week. Say hi, invite them to sit with you, or just show kindness.
Written by: Theresa Meacham
Read by: Ben CalhounBen Calhoun - Citizen Way
